Wednesday, October 1, 2014

Coco Martin apologizes for 'Naked Truth' segment


Yahoo Southeast Asia Newsroom - Coco Martin admits he made a mistake by holding a female model on a leash in "The Naked Truth" fashion show/NPPA Images 

Kapamilya actor Coco Martin finally broke his silence regarding criticisms directed at “The Naked Truth,” Bench’s recently-concluded fashion show.
In a press conference held on Tuesday, September 30, Coco's legal counsel Lorna Kapunan shared that the actor "did not have the slightest intention on his mind to insult women."


Appeal for understanding
“Mr. Martin sincerely expresses his apology and requests the public for understanding. Mr. Martin equally feels bad about the incident and saddened at the thought that be unwittingly offended the public," Kapunan read Coco’s statement.
She added that Coco only rehearsed once and was told about his role a day before the show, which was held on September 19 at the SM Mall of Asia.
"While offering no excuse and admits that a mistake has been made, Mr. Martin wants to set the record straight about the incident. Mr. Martin has an existing contract that obliges him to appear on fashion shows for Bench. Nevertheless, Mr. Martin, nor his manager or staff, was not involved in the conceptualization of the production of the Naked Truth Show nor the segment entitled "The Animal Within Me." He only appeared once for a rehearsal which was a day prior to the show and it was only then that the role, as a ring master, was given to him."
Language problem
A language barrier also prevented Coco, who is more confident in the Filipino tongue, from expressing his concern on his segment, where he appeared holding a female model on a leash.
"During the rehearsal most of the people on stage were foreigners and even the choreographer was a foreigner. Mr. Martin wanted to voice out his concern, particularly with the leash strapped on the neck of the lady model, but he failed to successfully communicate his thought because of the language barrier."
Kapunan added, "Mr. Martin kept mum on his opinion on the matter because it was impressed upon him that the whole show was already finalized and he felt insignificant as to cause a scene and demand an overhaul of the entire segment."
Lessons learned
The criticisms have taught Coco to be "more sensitive and mindful" of the roles given him.
"Mr. Martin feels extremely sorry for what transpired and admitted that this incident taught him a major lesson to be more sensitive and mindful of the repercussions of his portrayals."
Kapunan said that Coco, who is known to be close to his grandmother, did not intend to offend women.
"Let it be clarified, however, that Mr. Martin did not have the slightest intention on his mind to insult women by the single unfortunate act. Mr. Martin has high regard for women just as he respects and loves his mother, grandmother, and his three sisters."
According to Kapunan, Coco (who was not at the presscon)  vowed not to get involved again in sensitive portrayals.
Greatly saddened
She added that the issue has greatly saddened Coco, who is willing to personally meet women groups if his schedule permits.
It will be recalled that women’s groups like Gabriela and the Philippine Women Commission found Coco's segment disturbing and offensive to women.
Coco’s manager Biboy Arboleda shared that the actor feels down because of the issue.
“Malungkot siya, honestly. He’s down. Isa ito sa pinakamalaking dagok na nadaanan niya. Kahapon nag-usap kami, para siyang gulay na nanglulumo. Malungkot ang anak ko. Hindi niya siguro inaasahan na mangyayari ito ng ganito kalaki.” 
Sparing his family
While Coco feels sad, he doesn’t want to share the burden with his family.  
“Kinikwento niya na very close siya sa lola niya. Sabi niya, he’s acting as the head of the family... Although bothered siya, ayaw niyang dalhin yung problema niya sa head of the family. Doon mo malalaman if the person is really good, intuitively nafeel niya na bakit walang meeting, walang consultation sa mga artists. he kept on asking ‘Ano ba ang role ko?’ Normally, three practices raw iyan eh. They had no opportunity to do that.”
Bench chairman Ben Chan also apologized to Coco for "involving him in the controversial scene." He also clarified that Coco only portrayed a role given to him.
"It has never been the intent of Bench to offend anyone in presenting The Naked Truth Show. Coco Martin was asked to portray a character in a circus scene of our theatre show, and only played the role given him. This is to apologise to Coco Martin for involving him in the controversial scene,"  Chan said in a statement posted in Bench's official social media accounts.


Chynna Ortaleza moves on after breakup with Railey Valeroso


Nine years after having a beautiful relationship, Chynna Ortaleza and Railey Valeroso had to say good-bye to what they had.
“I feel like 2013 was one of the big years for my life because I had to rearrange my priorities and really find my passion. So when I finally took that leap of faith I had to let go of things that are painful to me,”  Chynna told Yahoo Philippines in a recent pocket interview for GMA’s teleseries,  “Dading” 
Sadly, her romance with her “Click” contemporary, Railey Valeroso, was one of the things she let go of.

"There was a time when I was concentrating too much on my relationship. And I felt like there was no personal growth with myself and my partner din."

She continued, "It was nice lang to finally get to a point when bigla among napaisip na, ‘Is this what I want my life to be? Dito na ba nag-eend ‘yung adventure ko?’”


Moving on
Like other long-time couples, the Kapuso star confessed she and Railey thought of settling down.

"We talked about it (marriage), but it wasn’t like the main goal. We loved each other. We liked each other’s company, but we never pressured each other into getting married."

Meanwhile, Chynna said she’s happy both of them have finally moved on: Railey is in another relationship, while she enjoys being single.

"We’re friends. We parted naman very nicely. I chose to really find myself. It’s a personal choice to stay single. I’m open to friends, but I really don’t want to go into any romantic relationship at this point.”

The former teen star is thankful for memories of how their love story grew. They were young lovers in GMA’s defunct youth-oriented show “Click” in 2001 and became official while doing “Habang Kapiling Ka” the following year.





Charice doesn’t feel appreciated in PH



Charice feels her own countrymen do not appreciate her achievements in the Philippines and abroad.

“Eto lang nasa isip ko ng ilang taon na.  hehe. Ang showbiz dito sa Pilipinas, mahirap. Di ko alam ang status ko kung mahal ba ako ng sarili kong bansa o kailangan ko pa ring i-prove yung sarili ko?  Sa ilang taon na nagta-trabaho ako, hindi man kasing tagal ng ibang idols niyo, mahirap pa rin yung pinagdaanan ko,” Charice posted in her  Instagram account.

Charice’s international singing career took off after she made separate guest appearances in  Ellen DeGeneres and Oprah’s  TV shows years ago. Charice joined David Foster’s concert tour, performed with divas Celine Dion and Mariah Carey, acted in American TV show “Glee” and appeared in Hollywood movies “Alvin and The Chipmunks” and “Here Comes the Boom.”
Detractors
However, others look past Charice’s achievements and criticize her looks, personality and sexuality instead.

"Nakikipag-sapalaran sa bansang di ko naman kinalakihan. Napasama ako sa mga malalaking TV shows pero pagdating ko dito, iba pa rin ang hinahanap sa akin, iba pa rin ang nilalait sa akin. Pananalita ko, itsura ko, mga sinusuot ko, buhok ko, sekswalidad ko, buhay ko, lahat na. Napapagkamalan akong mayabang dahil ba nakatungtong ako ng ibang bansa? Pinagtatawanan ako dati kasi daw mali-mali Ingles ko. Pati ibang artista (kung puwede lang mag-drop names). May oras na puro laman ng news ay halos issues kaysa sa achievements na nakukuha ko,” she said.

In time, Charice hopes to get the respect she deserves.

"Kaya kung minsan, nandoon yung oras na parang may wall ako sa harap ko. Straight lang mukha ko. Kasi ayoko na nung time na inaapi at pinagtatawanan ako. Gusto ko may respeto kahit kaunti.”
Cyberbullies
Charice admits that sometimes she’s scared of checking out social media content because of cyberbullies.
Her Instagram account, which has more than 50,000 followers, is private.

“Nakikita ko ang mga taong nagmamahal sa akin at nagpapasalamat ako sa lahat. Pero aminin natin na pag kumanta na ako dito, nakakatakot buksan ang ibang social networks. Ang daming bully.”
Charice admits wondering if people will like her more if she changes her looks.
Grateful
"Eto joke ito sa isip ko. Natatawa ako pag iniisip, pero medyo totoo din. Minsan iniisip ko, kung kamukha kaya ako ng isa sa pinaka-gwapong artista ngayon, tapos same achievements, iba kaya ang trato?”

Despite her disappointments, Charice feels grateful to God and her supporters.
"Nagsasabi lang po ako ng totoo. Ganito na talaga ngayon. Masarap lang ilabas ang nararamdaman, pero salamat kay Lord at pinapatatag Niya ako. Sa lahat ng reklamo ko, hehe (pasensya), kuntento na ako. Basta nandiyan 'yung mga totoong taong nagmamahal sa akin. Love you back at patuloy ang buhay!”

 Charice recently came back from a successful tour abroad. She and  mother Raquel Pempengco have patched things up after a misunderstanding of more than a year.


Maxene Magalona now a Kapamilya?


Longtime Kapuso star Maxene Magalona surprised many when she sat as one of the judges in ABS-CBN’s noontime variety show “It’s Showtime” this week.
The late Francis Magalona’s daughter returned to the Kapamilya network two decades after starring in the youth-oriented show “Ang TV.” While it is unclear if Maxene is now officially a Kapamilya, the actress says she feels happy with the warm welcome ABS-CBN gave her.
Happy memories
“Back in the halls of ABS-CBN. The last time I was here, I was still a little girl running around and being so makulit as one of the cast members of Ang TV 21 years ago. It feels good to be back! Thanks for the warm welcome, mga kapamilya,” Maxene posted on Instagram.


On her first day as a judge, Maxene did a ‘sample’ performance by interpreting her dad’s song “Cold Summer Nights.”
“Sa lahat ng mga Kapamilyang nanonood, gusto ko pong magpakilala, ako po si Maxene Magalona,” she said before singing.
Her guesting in “It’s Showtime” made Maxene trend on Twitter worldwide. While this is not the first time she trended on Twitter, Maxene joked that it feels good she did so, not because she sang off-key. 
It will be recalled that Maxene trended in 2012 when she sang “Pare Ko” out of tune in “Party Pilipinas.”
Enjoying herself 
“Ang sarap pala mag-trending nang hindi dahil sa piyok at pagkanta ng off-key! Salamat ulit sa lahat ng mga kapamilya na nanuod at sumuporta sa akin sa Showtime! Bukas ulit,” she posted.


The Life-Changing Game That Is Motherhood


No job is as hard--or as fulfilling--as that of becoming a mother. For those of us who have yet to be initiated into the exclusive club of nurturers, we know from our own experiences of being cared for by our moms that being a mom entails sacrifice, selflessness, boundless generosity, and of course, unending love. 

We asked models and celebrities how motherhood changed their lives. Most of their answers are rife with realizations and brimming with enriching stories of how motherhood gave their lives purpose and meaning. For holistic living advocate, model, farmer, and entrepreneur Hindy Weber-Tantoco, being a mother to a brood of four has cleared her life path of the unnecessary. "It (motherhood) has cleared the pathway to only the essentials in life. And by essentials, I also mean the simple moments of joy and play." 

Motherhood, for Hindy, is a never ending learning experience, too. "After four children, I have learned that there is not a single formula for motherhood; and neither is there a single formula to raise a child. Each child is unique; parenting them must be customized to their own needs for growth, wellbeing and happiness." Another lesson she had learned, perhaps one of the hardest for a nurturing mother to learn: "Let go at the right time--this is another important lesson." 

Author, model and TV host Amanda Griffin-Jacob, who also runs a parenting website at Glam-o-Mamassays motherhood improved her as a person. "Motherhood has definitely improved me; I am always striving to be a better version of myself for my children." Becoming a mom also inspired her to create a website devoted to parenting. Amanda adds, "Once I became a mother, I realized what an incredible gift and responsibility motherhood is. My children are the most precious things to me and I want to give them the best start in life.This includes their health, their emotional and mental development and growth, which is why I am all about a more natural approach to parenting and life."

Also read: Best Mom Ever! 

Model and jewelry designer Tweetie de Leon-Gonzalez says motherhood has made her grow up and has taught her to be mindful. "It made me grow up so fast and in many ways, motherhood has made me a better person. I actually understood what selflessness means and what being responsible for other human beings is all about. Everything I do, everything I think of or say affects other people, and so I'm more mindful of what I say, think, or do. My dream for my children is for them to become good individuals, model citizens."

Model and TV host Cheska Garcia-Kramer, who documents the adorable antics of her two precocious daughters and baby son on their popular Facebook page loves the meaningful purpose her children have given her life. "Becoming a mom has given me more direction, and it's inspired me to be a better person for my children and my husband. Life has become more meaningful," she says. 

Also read: How Strengthen Family Ties 

Hindy and Cheska shares their advice for new moms, too. Hindy reminds moms that it takes a village to raise happy and healthy children, and that it's essential to listen to one's maternal instincts. "Stop reading all the how-to books; trust your instinct, and work together with a good pediatrician, a good teacher, a good yaya for the health and happiness of your child, the operative word being "together." They don't have all the answers. They can't do everything. They're not always right. You need to be involved. It's a work in progress that requires teamwork."

Cheska, meanwhile, stresses the importance of savoring every moment you spend with your kids. "Enjoy motherhood and cherish every moment you spend with your children, because time goes by so fast after giving birth. Once they hit one year and start walking and talking, you really ask yourself, 'Where have the days gone?' Make every moment count."



Can you keep the grandparents from spoiling your kids?


It’s heartwarming to see grandparents playing with their grandkids. When my eldest daughter was a baby, she would always ask her lolo to carry her because he would take her wherever she wanted to go. My second is following suit.

When they disappear into a toy store with him, however, I’m always on the alert, telling my eldest she cannot ask for a toy and she can only look. But when they visit the toy store without my knowledge, even the baby (who certainly didn’t ask for anything) comes home with something!

When lolo and lola spoil
“My pop often spoils my son,” shares Gabby Marquez*, dad of one. “He usually gives him something that I don't want him to have. Sometimes he bribes him to get his attention or even rewards him with a treat after my son has been punished for something he did.”

Jane Villareal*, mom of two, says, “With my MIL, it's more her not setting limits, doing things for my son even if he should be doing them on his own, allowing him to skip certain things even if they both know they're non-negotiables (drinking milk or water instead of a juice box or iced tea), and feeling the need to please him right away the moment he expresses any complaint (when he doesn't like the food prepared, she'll hurry to cook something else).”

How parents gain balance
I learned early on that telling my dad to stop wasn’t going to work. He loves my daughters and the way he shows his love is to give them whatever they ask for (and more). I have also accepted that it is his role as lolo to do this. But when I feel that it’s a non-negotiable, I talk to my daughter and impress the rules upon her. Then I remind lolo, in front of her, what those rules are.

Jane also addresses her son when she sees her mother-in-law giving in too much. “If I see her packing away for him, I'll say, ‘Tom, why is Mama the one...?’. Then I tell my MIL that she doesn't have to continue because Tom can do it or I ask Tom to do it with her.”

Gabby also talks to his son. “Sometimes, I reverse what has been done by taking away the gift or explaining that how he received it was wrong. He feels bad but understands not to go against his parents’ wishes and he tells his lolo that Dad says no or that he will have to ask Mom or Dad first.”

Why lolo and lola spoil
Paz Benares, grandmother of five, suggests that parents see this issue differently. “Grandparents spoiling their grandchildren is largely a myth, at least as far as I'm concerned,” she says. “It's more of ‘been there, done that’ and we have become more understanding of their feelings, their moods, their anxieties. When we were parents, we were afraid of our children turning out delinquents so we would focus on discipline. We have come to realize, maybe because wisdom comes with age and we are also more comfortable with ourselves, that when love is the main ingredient in your relationship, you can't go wrong.”

Jing Lejano, grandmother of one, says she doesn’t really spoil her granddaughter but, “Yes there is that tendency. If she's really insistent on doing, having, or eating something, I give in if I know it won't put her in danger. I'm too old to have arguments with a toddler. My daughter is aware of this and it's just something she has to deal with.”

Open communication lines
Jing suggests, “Talk to the grannies and grandpas. Let them know how you feel. Raising a child is hard enough.”

Jane agrees. “I, personally, still speak up and let my MIL know that spoiling is not okay with me. I say it in the most polite, respectful way possible. Also I make it about what Tom did or didn't do instead of what my MIL did or didn't do, for example, I say he's just testing you or he's just making arte rather than ‘you need to be more assertive’.”

Gabby says his dad respects how he wants to raise his son, but sometimes, “I have to remind him that this will have a very negative impact on my son's character in the future. My dad says yes and there’s a little improvement next time. But there are relapses.”

Accept the situation
But sometimes, lolo or lola will not listen. This is when sensitivity and a little leeway must come in. “My kids know that there's nothing I can do with regards to their dad, that he will not listen to me either, although I still try to talk to him,” shares Paz about her husband spoiling the grandkids. “So most of the time, they're the ones who just have to adjust to him.”

The way I see it, if it’s harmless, allow your parents to shower some love on their grandkids. If it blatantly goes against your parenting beliefs, it’s time to step in. But always remember to temper this situation with love because you know that when it comes to grandparents, that’s definitely where they’re coming from.
*not their real names

Andi Eigenmann not giving up on Jake Ejercito


Andi Eigenmann is not closing her doors on a reconciliation with ex-boyfriend Jake Ejercito.
“Noong umuwi po siya (Jake) dito, nagdecide siya na magbago, na ayusin ang lahat. So we decided to get back together. I would not want anything more in this world than to be happy with Jake because I love him so much.We were just in the process of fixing things and then nangyari po iyon,” Andi said in an interview on “The Buzz” on Sunday, September 28.
Caught kissing another girl
Andi was referring to the release of photos showing Jake kissing another girl, at a time when they were trying to fix their broken relationship.
 The actress thinks Jake might have been hurt by her decision to entertain former Pinoy Big Brother housemate Bret Jackson. But she was also hurt when she saw a photo of Jake kissing another girl.
“Opo, hiwalay na kami and I entertained someone else and I became happy. Alam ko po na masakit iyon sa kanya dahil para sabihin niya na mahal niya ako and willing siyang magbago, ayusin ang mga bagay between the two of us. Instead na  malabas yung sakit na nararamdaman ko, parang galit na lang kasi okay na po sana, nakaka-move on na ako, pwede ko nang tulungan yung sarili ko na maging masaya. Tapos biglang ganoon lang pala yung gagawin niya sa akin. Para sa akin, pakiramdam ko naloko ako.”
Does she think Jake loved her while they were still together?
Too late
“Hindi po ako sigurado. Alam ko na Jake has done many things to me, magaganda po talaga. Pero sana po hindi ako yung sisisihin or mamasamain kung sa tingin ko medyo masakit na, hindi ko matanggap yung sa kanya.”
Jake tried to win her back after the break up and the release of the controversial photo by expressing his love for Andi in his Twitter account.
But while Andi was admittedly touched, she felt Jake’s move came too late.
“Natuwa naman po ako. Pinakita niya sa akin na kaya niyang magbago. Pero para sa akin po, sana noon pa niya kinayang gawin iyon. Bakit ngayon lang na wala na? Doon pa. Habang kami, I never felt na I deserved it, to be yung maging proud na ako yung taong mahal niya. Wala akong nakuhang ganoon noon. Kaya imbis na it can be a way for me to forgive him, lalo lang akong nagalit kasi bakit ngayon pa.”
Family problem
Andi also admitted feeling that Jake’s family doesn’t like her.
“Parang hindi po. Okay lang po sa akin iyon, naiintindihan ko. Okay lang, mahal na mahal ko si Jake. Gagawin ko po ang lahat para mapatunayan ko na karapat-dapat ako para sa kanya. Pero kung hindi po, okay lang.”
 Despite everything, Andi is not giving up on Jake.
“Para sa akin, never say never. I said many times that I’m gonna get over Jake and I will never be with him again. But then, the moment na magkaayos kami, I wanna be with him forever.”



Miss World Philippines 2014: Vote for the Yahoo Philippines Readers' Choice


The Miss World Philippines 2014 pageant is in full swing!
After the candidates were formally introduced to the press last September 17, they have been busy training and traveling for pageant activities, preparing for the big day on October 12 — the coronation night.
This year's crop of candidates is composed of 26 lovely women from different parts of the country and the world. Who will succeed Miss World 2013 Megan Young? Who among them will attempt to bring home the Miss World crown the second time around?
Yahoo Philippines is the official online partner of Miss World Philippines 2014. To help raise support for the candidates, we are conducting the Yahoo Philippines Readers' Choice poll.
The mechanics are simple:
  • Go to the profile of the Miss World Philippines 2014 candidate you support
  • Share her profile on your Facebook and Twitter account. Tag @YahooPH and use the hashtag #MWP2014.
  • The candidate with the most social media shares by October 11, 6pm, will be the official Yahoo Philippines Readers' Choice
Start supporting your candidate! Here are their profiles:
The Miss World Philippines 2014 coronation night will be on October 12 at the SM Mall of Asia Arena. Yahoo Philippines is the official online partner of Miss World Philippines 2014.

Candidate photos by Jory Rivera of OPMB Worldwide

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